After I found the love of my life, David, I got a jump-start into motherhood with 2 bonus children, Jacob (20) and Eden (18). I went ALL IN and have been called a “blended family” expert!
On a flight to (of course) a family Bat Mitzvah in London, I was reading the book, The Mastery of Love, by Don Miguel Ruiz. A central theme of the book asks what we would do if we had no fear. I noticed I was cradling the book like a baby. It was in that moment I realized I had such an abundance of love to pour into life. I looked at David sitting next me and I said, “I’m ready to have a baby.” Clarity is a powerful thing. We made the decision and a few months later I was pregnant.
My 4 year old, Aston, teaches me to stress less and play more. Every day, I am blessed to witness pure joy and wonder, through Aston’s eyes, and it is a feeling I channel into my work. He finds the fun in brushing his teeth, helping me with laundry and looking out the window, mesmerized by the family of wild turkeys who visit our lawn daily, for a little turkey-trot action. The turkey happens to be the spirit animal for abundance. It symbolizes unlocking the richness of life to appreciate everything. Aston’s excitement over the gobbling turkeys, instantly brings me into the miracle of now - a crisp focus on the having vs. the wanting.